A FATHER’S RESPONSE TO ATTACKS AGAINST VIRGINS!

Being a virgin does not guarantee; 

  • Salvation
  • Heaven
  • A good marriage
  • Success in life etc

But it means:

  • You have something many don’t have.
  • You are a rare commodity- and rare things are expensive.
  • You are among the few human beings that can say they had it.
  • You have discipline and discipline is the key to acquire anything available on earth for time- the same discipline that kept your virginity will also help you develop skills to acquire how to cook, how to make money etc.
  • YOU ARE AMONG THE FEW PARENTS THAT CAN TELL THEIR KIDS IT IS POSSIBLE!
  • YOU ARE A SAMPLE – it is possible!

– Don’t let anyone who has lost theirs or do not value it make you ashamed of what money can’t buy.

VIRGINITY IS A VIRTUE MONEY CAN’T BUY!

THERE ARE THOSE WHO DID NOT GIVE IT AWAY BUT IT WAS STOLEN BY RAPE OR ACCIDENT – you are still a virgin. Like a man whose car was stolen cannot be compared to a man who never had a car – you are special.

VIRGINITY MAKES YOU VALUABLE TO TWO PERSONS- your God and your husband/wife.

– Everyone who married as a virgin has the privilege of being taken on a journey of discovery of the wonders of sex by a person you waited for- either both of you or one of you. Nothing compares with it.

– THE WORTH OF YOUR VIRGINITY IS ONLY YOUR SPOUSE THAT CAN MEASURE IT.

– It gives your spouse the confidence in your self-control- you win the trust of each other.

– You become an example to others- when parents or pastors want to motivate their people to chastity, you become their pick!

– You are God’s witness that His word to stay pure is not a lie!

NOW GO AND ADD TO YOUR VIRGINITY JUST LIKE THE BIBLE SAYS ADD TO YOUR FAITH-

Wisdom, Cooking skills, Wealth generating skills, Fashion sense

THE DISCIPLINE AND SELF CONTROL THAT KEEPING YOUR VIRGINITY HAS GIVEN YOU, GIVES YOU AN ADVANTAGE TO ACQUIRE THOSE VIRTUES!

Virgin applies to both male and female.

If you gave away your virginity you are a little diminished and if you have kept your own you are complete FOR YOUR SPOUSE.

Note, it does not enhance your job prospect but enhances your trust score with your husband

ESPECIALLY IF HE /SHE WAS WAYWARD – they instinctively know you did what they failed to do and they trust you more.

If you lost it before marriage and your spouse was also wayward – they think you could still stray –

HAVE YOU HEARD THE PHRASE – nobody is pure or everybody is doing it – NO VIRGIN SAYS THAT!

So dear virgin, raise your head high and don’t let anyone shame you out of a great thing you have.

WAIT TILL YOUR WEDDING NIGHT AND SEE THE LOOK ON YOUR SPOUSE – MALE OR FEMALE AND ESPECIALLY FOR WOMEN.

From Rev. Olusola Areogun